• Tom Kelly Weddings, Officiant San Diego, Spiritual minister of marriage San Diego

    One of a kind weddings tailored to the unique love between each couple.

Wedding Ceremonies

Congratulations on your engagement! It is my joy to support you as you embark on this journey of love and partnership. My mission as the officiant of your ceremony is for each heart in the house to be opened and reconnected in the face of the extraordinary love binding the couple together and uniting us all.

I support couples of every faith, denomination, orientation and background. As a minister and spiritual counselor for over 35 years, I have officiated hundreds of ceremonies. I am honored to be present for such an intimate and sacred event in people’s lives and I hold every ceremony like it’s my first. I offer marriage services locally in San Diego and also love traveling for destination weddings.

Marriage Ceremony

Full service Wedding Officiant in San Diego, CA and surrounding areas

Renewal of Vows

For couples looking to reignite the spark in their relationship and re-commit.

Pre-Marital Counseling

Heart Attunement sessions to support you in building a strong foundation in your commitment to unconditional love.

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Heart Attunement Sessions for Engaged Couples

As you prepare for marriage, this stage of your relationship is the most important of all. It is when you create the platform for an extraordinary and blissful partnership. Reverend Tom Kelly offers pre-marital counseling packages of private sessions for couples in person and via Skype.

Always delivered with the utmost love, respect and care, these sessions leading up to the big day allow couples the space to attune their hearts to each other and to their highest selves, express what they love in their self and their partner-to-be, identify their relationship values and nourish key elements in a healthy and happy relationship.



  • Tom we are ALL still on angel wings, floating from the ceremony. Every guest has had the most beautiful things to say about us, you, and the ceremony and just how much they each got out of it. You blew us away. You connected with people from all over the world and held the attention of the entire crowd!! We love you and will never forget you for making our day the best and most memorable day of our lives.
    Gen and Nico
  • Philip and I would like to thank you from the depths of our hearts for creating such a magic moment on our wedding day! I can’t express how wonderful and romantic the ceremony was for not only Philip and I but all of our friends and family! How often do the family members want a copy of such a work of art and moment in time….Thank you again. We have created a unique bond thanks to you and we plan to nourish it for life!! 
    Amy and Philip Yancey
  • George and I wanted to let you know how much we loved the ceremony you performed for our wedding. As I told you before you left, to me it was nothing short of a “super deluxe custom version” and priceless to us! I also wanted to tell you that no less than 30 people came to me that day and after to comment on the specialness of the ceremony and your wonderful delivery of it. Thanks for being such a profound part of our wedding. No doubt you were meant to be a part of it!
  • Darbi and I wish you heaps of gratitude for our wedding ceremony Saturday. As with many new things, we do not know how they will turn out until we try them. You were fantastic. We really appreciated your adaptability to the environs (you really flowed right through the “I forgot my flowers!”). We received many compliments for the service and hope many others take advantage of your good energy and ceremony creation.


About Tom Kelly

Tom Kelly, was born in Los Angeles, California, on April 6, 1950. As a child, Tom was naturally devotional, serving as an altar boy at his family church. While attending college at the University of California in Santa Barbara, Tom developed a deep yearning within his heart and soul to make a more intimate connection with God.


After earning his B.A. in Anthropology and Religious Studies from the University of California at Santa Barbara, at the age of 24, Tom entered the monastic life at the Self-Realization Fellowship (SRF). Founded by Paramahansa Yogananda in southern California, SRF- is an international, non-profit, religious organization that has roots that trace back to the ancient lineage of Swamis from India.

After taking vows of simplicity, chastity, obedience, and loyalty, Tom spent the next 25 years engaged in rigorous spiritual training as a deeply devoted raja yoga monk practicing meditation and humanitarian service on a daily basis, specializing in ministry, team building and motivational speaking.

In the fall of 1999, after joyfully living and serving for 25 years as a monk in the Self-Realization Fellowship Order, Tom felt ready to embark on a new adventure in his life. Filled with inspiration and the assurance from the Divine, Tom left the monastic life and re-entered the secular world, in order to expand his life learning, as well as share the fruits of his self-transformation and direct experience of Yoga with all.


As an ordained minister and certified yoga teacher with over 30 years of experience in spiritual and personal growth development, Reverend Tom has traveled around the world to carry the message of the Sacred Art of Raja Yoga.

Tom’s passion for communicating the joy of spiritual living is highly contagious. Tom serves from an open heart with the sole intention of opening hearts and minds to seeing the truth of love within and all around us.